YSK: If you know someone who is abusive and you tell a victim of that abuser you don't want to take sides, you ARE taking a side. You are choosing the abuser's side.
from /r/YouShouldKnow
YSK：如果你認識一個有虐待行爲的人，而你告訴那個虐待者的受害者你不想站在哪一邊，那麼你就是站在了某一邊。你是在選擇施暴者的一方。