YSK: If you know someone who is abusive and you tell a victim of that abuser you don't want to take sides, you ARE taking a side. You are choosing the abuser's side.
from /r/YouShouldKnow
YSK：如果你认识一个有虐待行为的人，而你告诉那个虐待者的受害者你不想站在哪一边，那么你就是站在了某一边。你是在选择施暴者的一方。