YSK It is totally fine to want a quiet, simple life of stability. You do not have to strive to change to world; you are not selfish for that. In fact, putting yourself first is noble in itself.
from /r/YouShouldKnow
YSK 想要一个安静、简单的稳定生活是完全可以的。你不必努力去改变世界，你并不因此而自私。其实，把自己放在第一位，本身就很高尚。