YSK: If you know someone who is abusive and you tell a victim of that abuser you don't want to take sides, you ARE taking a side. You are choosing the abuser's side.
from /r/YouShouldKnow
YSK: If you know someone who is abusive and you tell a victim of that abuser you don't want to take sides, you ARE taking a side. You are choosing the abuser's side.